I had
the pleasure of meeting with Mohammed on Thursday, November 8, 2012. His friend and roommate, Mubarack, also
joined us. We met on the walkover and
sat on the chairs. It was an amazing day
and the air felt wonderful. Mohammed
wasn’t incredibly impressed. He was more
interested in playing with his cell phone while occasionally adding tidbits to
the conversation. Basically, we talked
about his plans for his 18th birthday that night, and also about the
upcoming soccer game that the CIES team was going to participating in. Mohammed didn’t want to make any definite
plans for his birthday, but I learned later on that Alex was going to be
tutoring the guys that night and they were excited about doing something
celebratory. I wasn’t one of the guys,
so I didn’t pursue the conversation. I
was curious about something that I had recently learned from one of my Kuwaiti
friends, so I asked him about that topic to stimulate more of a
conversation. I learned about a duwani recently and so I wanted to know
if his family had one attached to his house.
Apparently, every house has a duwani. It is a greeting room that is always
available for friends to drink tea and coffee and eat dates. I am amazed by the hospitality that the
Arabic people exhibit to their friends and family. Even though not all dwanis are available to women, there is almost always a separate one
that is more feminine in its decorations, but serves the same friendly
hospitable purpose.
Great insights into Arab culture. Shukran!
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